1 Jul 2019

快一個多月了都沒寫日記,感覺如何?哈,面。目。可。憎。

我好好的看看自己怎麼了。

有些事不好說,不想説,不知道怎麼說,不知道説了,會不會對別人造成傷害,所以那個聲音拉著自己,別寫了,何必把自己的心掏出來,讓所有人檢視,尤其黑暗的,醜陋的更不想讓人看見,所以有段時間,那個聲音赢了,以為不寫出來,黑暗的,醜陋的就不存在。

可是也總有另一個聲音:人生過了一大半,裝也裝夠了吧!現在是最好的機會,面對真實的自己。已經不需要再多的掌聲,需要的是那份對自己的明白,然後可以安定的去看看哪裡還沒做好,還沒弄好的,趕快把它弄好來,時間不多了。本來人就不是完美的,開始面對真實的自己吧,透過寫日記,透過公開的方式,做為一個承諾,你的勇敢面對也可以幫助别人開始勇敢面對真實的自己,這世界可以開始少一些虛偽,多一些真心,為下一代留下美好的可能,也會增加一些吧!

其實所有自己認為不好說,不想說,不知道怎麼說的,都是因為還不願意面對,真實的自己出不來,虚假的積累,讓出自己面目可憎。只要願意,還是可以好好的說,把黒暗的,醜陋的,真實的表達,說到對人是有幫助的。

這段時間,在生活上,又沒管好自己的嘴,惹得孩子不開心;面對前夫,不小心還是想著對付,而不是對待;對於自己的未來,想做的太多,能做的太少,於是面對一個新的混沌,還需要時間沉澱,可以看得明白,需要新的高度,看得全面。

不管如何,我願意和大家分享真實的心路歷程,這段旅程,我可能選擇了比較顛頗的路,也可能走錯了路,但我都會真實分享,不想再浪費生命塑造理想卻不真實的我。

Ruah,加油💪!

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