Day 31

Day 31

親生媽媽連我有七個孩子,雖然都是同樣的父母,但是每個孩子性格都很不一樣,倒底是天生?還是後天的影響呢?

我從小一起長大有一個哥哥和一個弟弟,哥哥非常優秀,從小很多人不知道我的名字,但都知道我是某某的妹妹。

小時候也曾經懷疑母親重男輕女,哥哥過目不忘,沒花太多時間讀書,但學習表現好,媽媽一定比較疼他吧!常常自憐命運坎坷,爹娘不愛(回想起來並沒有),或許也是小時候比較沈黙的原因吧!

雖然沈黙,但打心底總想著要和哥哥較勁,希望有一天要超越他。

30歲一個偶然的機會,一位香港出名的算命師,算出一起長大的哥哥,弟弟和我是來自三對不同的父母,而我和弟弟至少和母親有血緣關係,而哥哥完全沒有。

那時才明白,父母其實對每個孩子的愛都是一樣的,但因為每個孩子都是獨特的,所以他們也要用適合的方式對待每個孩子,如此而已。

以前是我自己沒看懂,於是就那樣的去想,去誤解,所以就活得天翻地覆。

我想如果是同樣的父母生的孩子,父母的愛和對待應該也是一樣的,只是看孩子自己怎麼去想,用什麼方式去接受,而每一個想,都會有一個結果,如果想的都是滿滿的愛,結果應該不會太差;如果想的都是”比較”,可能會有抱怨,而這對結果幫助不大吧!

先天的不同是確定的,但我們可以選擇好的想法❤️

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